I am so grateful that I’ve been able to spend six months with my family taking parental leave for the birth of my daughter.
I think it’s important to pause for a moment and acknowledge the fact that I’m highly privileged to receive this much parental leave in the United States. Most people do not receive anything comparable. The federal Family and Medical Leave Act of 1993 (FMLA) provides 12 weeks of unpaid leave for mothers, but only if they work for a company with 50 or more employees. In California, we have Parental Family Leave (PFL), which provides 6 weeks of partially paid leave. A few other states have similar protections, but it’s not enough for families to recover from the trauma of childbirth and to be in the right mental and physical health before returning to work. I’m grateful that a number of tech companies are leading the pack in terms of parental leave, and very fortunate that I’m able to work in this industry, but hopefully one’s ability to care for their child or partner will not be dependent on their employer in the future. Continue reading “I’m Grateful for My Parental Leave”
2017 has been quite a year. Looking back at my 2016 in Review post, here were my two biggest goals for 2017 and a mini retrospective:
- Give away my Legos so that I can work with new ones.
- Despite having the same title, I had a very different job at the end of 2017 than at the beginning. Sometimes it feels like I went from this to this.
- Keep learning…
- About my slice of the industry by hosting more meetups.
- This didn’t happen at all.
- About management via the Rands Leadership slack.
- This was a triumph, and my network is stronger than ever.
- About parenting and my kid by using my parental leave.
- I spent a lot of time with my kiddo, using 26 days in 2017, up from 16 in 2016.
What follows are the stories behind these snippets, and a few other things that happened. Continue reading “2017 in Review”
Let me just start with: Wow.
It’s been a huge year for all of us, full of changes and growth.
At the beginning of the year, I was looking for a new job in software engineering management. My wife was 5 months pregnant, and I was trying to figure out how rapidly I needed to get a paycheck. I was very lucky to be able to sell some stock options from my last company to tide me over for six months and allow me to find the job I wanted rather than settling for the job I needed. That has not been my experience in the past, and I don’t count on it being the case in the future.
Finding a management job can be tough.
Continue reading “2016 in Review”